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Hello again! i got this from my sister's chain message on blackberry messenger.

I think all the ladies should read this.

Girls vs Grown Women   

Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.    

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.. 

Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys. 

Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home. 

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. 

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends. 

Girls think a guy crying is weak.. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. 

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate,without fear of losing his 'manhood'. 

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just one man. 

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, IGNORING  all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. 

and there is something i want to say, actually a lot of things!

I don't know whether I was always controlling him every moment. but I believe in whatever he did, and I will always support and help him from the other side as Rafi want

I always understood that Rafi's life is not to call me any time. We both have activities to do. Sometimes we need time to be alone.

I've always been afraid to be alone when I have been getting the people I love are always there for me. Who the hell are not afraid? even my mother was still shocked when my father died.

good or bad guy, Rafi is still a guy who always told me that he always wanted to keep me.

every man will always miss home because there was someone who had been waiting there to be watching him with affection. One day I want to be someone who will wait for it.

every time me and Rafi would go together and I ask "where do we want?", he always said "you are set." I've always objected to her attitude, so I choose several options that he would choose. And now I realize I could act like a grown woman in some respects.

I always try to be always good, but Rafi was always saying "i love the way you are"

I am grateful that Rafi is not a baby boy who would be angry if I did not immediately reply to his message. Or pick up the phone from him. And therefore I always miss him and every second when we were together, always memorable and special for me.

okay, I do not think all the guys who cry was weak. But if the guy was crying not because of a problem or something that is not excessive, he was weak. But when it's all just too heavy, it's okay to cry.

I am a girl who likes the spoiled. but I always try to become self-reliant and not depend on others.

I have felt the bitter taste of being hurt. And I've always tried to bury it until a long time and eventually all must end. And I tried to find another guy who will never hurt me. And I found Rafi.

when the first time i saw rafi, sometimes I feel hopeless. Then I realized that I never do anything to get him. And I would be willing, if he does not love me like I loved him.

From all this, I thank to all people around me who has guided and formed my personality. I just wanted to say that I was the girl who wants to be a grown woman.

Regards, 

Gotjer's the girl who really wants to be a grown woman